Ilbersalle came to the United States from Haiti, first landing in Fort Lauderdale, Florida when he was around 2 years old. After this, he resided mostly in landlocked states. Arizona at first, then for most of his childhood and adolescence, Nebraska, as well as Oklahoma, and now Austin, Texas. It is there that he created a long-sought-after sense of community.

Patricia was adopted from South Korea in 1989. She shares about her recent trip to Korea where she met her birth mother. She offers advice to other adoptees.